Dear Coming Through The Rye Staff,
There is 16 year age gap between my husband and I. He has two grown children – 19 year old son & 22 year old daughter. They are happy being far from their dad, but everyday they squeeze him money with possible reason beside alimony. We met and fell in love when he was totally broke. I stand by him and support him in any way I can. He is 50 years old, has a very short temper, and is financially doing okay after so many bad years. He is always angry about everything, and he’s started really loudly shouting and cursing!
Just recently, I found out that he is cheating on me with prostitute. I was shocked, but at the same time I feel for him, because l am not a sexual person. It takes me long time to get in the mood, but it is frustrating for me. I don’t know if I need to confront him or just be patient and give him more love, care, and sex. Please advise me.